Tom Usher wrote or added | She changed. That's what people do. That's what people can do. Anyone who says people can't change is insane.
"...calling myself a lesbian was almost like calling myself a punk or a goth."
She's got it! People are trying on homosexuality the way they take on any other fad or trendy thing. It goes deeper than that for some, but for most right now in recent years, it's right on the mark. It's simply a matter of who's been pumping out propaganda to hypnotize others into false beliefs such as that people can't change.
So, the can't-change thing is a lie. Got it? It's a fact, and no homosexual members of the American Psychological Association (APA) or any other group are going to change it. If you don't like that, tough. Grow up, and face the facts. The truth won't kill you. It will save you.