MATE DEBATE: IS MONOGAMY REALISTIC?

This was a link over on Facebook:

Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? - CNN.com
Source: www.cnn.com
If you were to judge the success rate of monogamy by the sex lives of public figures, perhaps couples should change their marriage vows to say, "Till a tempting new partner do us part."

It garnered quite a few comments. The comments were mixed, ranging from "Do What Thou Wilt Shall Be the Whole of the Law" type responses (Satanic from Aleister Crowley) to some such as mine, as follows:

Well, if one reads the Old Testament in light of the New with a concerted focus upon what Jesus said and did, then the Old Testament rules are too low. The low rules are for those with harder hearts. The soft-hearted care deeply about how things such as infidelity hurt the other.

Does consenting to anything other than monogamy or celibacy actually come harm free?

The Old Testament allows incestuous marriages too.

In certain strains of Islam and Judaism, sex with prepubescent children is acceptable. Too me, it's beyond ignorant. There is major rationalizing going on to get that far over into dismissing the harm of that confusion.

Jesus said that we'll end up as the angels in heaven that is to say, not married. Consider the implications here and now.

The standard was higher in many areas before this postmodern wave, was it not? This movement to a new "modern" is looking more and more like moving from an already distorted version of Christianity to worshiping something getting closer and closer to Dionysus again. When will "Christians" start having group sex in their churches, or has it already happened quite a bit but just below the mainstream radar?

Are orgies ever really Christ-like? I know they aren't. You can't tell me that there aren't orgies going on with this poly- this, that, or the other stuff either.

No one is going to be able to keep a lid on it. Licensing is definitely trending toward libertinism. Hedonism is all the rage. Would-be Christians need to consider.

I, for one, openly and firmly reject this trend to relaxing the standards consciously set higher by Jesus. What's happened with the movement to being perfected?

Someone wrote: "Whatever happened to common sense without debate? Sheesh. Part of "loving your neighbor" is leaving them the hell alone."

I responded with this:

Who here takes Communion with an unrepentant Aleister Crowley bent upon subverting everything that is Holy and right? I refuse. The blood he offers, I don't want.

Also, leaving one's neighbor alone includes leaving him lying by the side of the road, dying. Do you want to be left there? I don't.

Where are you going? Where are you headed? Where are you trying to take others? What kind of world are you working to bring forth?

Jesus came to divide, and I wish it were already over; but it's God's will.

In his good time.

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    Employment: 2008 - present, website developer and writer. 2015 - present, insurance broker. Education: Arizona State University, Bachelor of Science in Political Science. City University of Seattle, graduate studies in Public Administration. Volunteerism: 2007 - present, president of the Real Liberal Christian Church and Christian Commons Project.
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